Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Friday, February 6, 2009
Last day in India...
I’m not sure why, but I decided to stay at the familiar Bamboo House… (please read earlier blog entry on extra guests in the room) But it felt good to be welcomed back...
I made it to yoga on the beach first light and then went for my last swim before heading back to Canadian snow….At that point Ozsi sent me a note that he had something for me so I went to see him for breakfast.
Next, I flew from Trivandrum to Mumbai. I had a set plan of what I wanted to do in Mumbai…Throughout the trip, I have been reading Shantaram, a 932 page book that takes place in Mumbai. So I’ve been taking on a bit of Lin’s persona and I’m so excited to see things in the book. I wanted to go to the Gateway of India...Check out the Taj Mahal Hotel...Eat at Leopolds..
Then I head over to have dinner at Leopolds. They were filming in there to get people’s reaction to the terrorist shooting there in November. They say the restaurant opened up in less than a month after the shooting. I sat in the back of the place feeling pretty safe until the waiter pointed out the bullet hole in the mirror about a foot from where I was sitting. (I asked for my bill at that point...)
Things I’ve learned in India….
-This trip has brought about an abundance of patience in me that I never thought I had. I’ve stood in so many queues, had people bud in and push me out of the way and nothing seems to faze me anymore. (we’ll see if that lasts once I’m back in Canada)
-I’ve also found a new sense of personal space. At the ashram, you think the floor space is all taken because Michelle C and I are only about 6 inches apart. The next thing you know, there’s 5 people who've squeezed inbetween us… You might not always get what you want, but you'll always get what you need.
-And lastly, I’ve learned that if you give your credit card and your passport to a guy named Babu and all you get back is a ripped paper with a flight itinerary on it, you sometimes just have to trust that the universe is going to look after you….
See you back in Canada…
Thursday, February 5, 2009
House Guests
Usually before bed, I read some of my 932 page book, Shantaram. So one night, I’m at the part where Lin is living in the slums in Mumbai. So I’m not sure if I’m still reading of the creepy crawler episodes or if something really did crawl across my arm. So I move my hand further up and feel it again. Ugh… So I jump out of bed and turn on the lights. Our little creature is hiding at the end of the bed but we can see the shadow of it's antennae. Since Michelle C and I are now jumping around the room, I open the door to go get our night watchman. He comes running over like we’ve just been shot but in the typical Indian fashion, asks our permission before entering our hut. He even takes his shoes off. Once he’s there, we pull back the mattress and the 3 inch cockroach runs away. Our watchman jumps around looking for something to catch it with so we give him a bag but the bugger goes into hiding. Our guy then runs out to get some spray. Then he starts spraying at the head of our bed.
So our guys tells us to wait five minutes for the spray to disperse and then we can go back to bed. (yeah right) So we sit and watch and out comes a baby cockroach… It was a little easier to catch. Then out came the “Mama” roach… By this time, another man has appeared and is helping in the hunt.
Throughout this, Mich C and I are packing and moving our bags around as the guys are spraying and the roaches tour the room. At one point, the watchman flicks the roach and it pings off the chest of the other guy like he’s playing hot potatoe and doesn’t want to catch it…. Eventually the Mama gets the big squash… So for the rest of the night, Michelle and I leave the lights on and sleep facing the headboard. I think I could have won $10,000 if I had a video of this! As a tip, I think we gave our watchman the equivalent of a week’s wages. Well worth it to us!
Monday, February 2, 2009
R & R
We spent 3 days of R&R in a small seaside village called Varkala... Our bamboo huts were at the top of a cliff so we went down to the beach every morning for yoga and watching the sun rise...
One morning, we walked down the beach to the end and there was a Buddhist ceremony going on. It was to honor the dead....amazing to watch..
Sunday, February 1, 2009
School Visit...
Friday, January 30, 2009
Team Poem
We said okay, fine.
So here we are…
India Build 2009!
Rick our first aider,
Was the first to need stitches…
Then there’s Chantel,
With her bites and itches!
Michael had a problem,
To do what he had to do…
He ended up using tea #3,
To go number 2…
Melissa had an Indian dream,
Coconuts she did adore.
Next thing you know she’s sick,
So watch what you wish for!
Taking turns running to the loo,
Penny and Mary did go.
And all I can say…
Is “E – I – E – I - O!!”
All good, All the time,
Says Radio Channel M!
Keeping quiet at Amma’s
Is going to be a real challenge for them!
As the official team photographer,
Although, not paid.
Pasquale ended up..
As the Grassis’ personal Nursemaid!
And what will Nat do?
With her money all spent...
The only gift she can give to her new boyfriend...
Is Ce-Ment! Ce-Ment!!
Then there's Kevin and Steve's musical talent...
That makes us admire them.
That was until...
Dave came knocking at 2 am!
Lastly, there's Karen and Jamu,
Each have a liquid they prefer...
Jamu's is vodka and Limca,
And Karen's is Hand San-i-tizer!
Tim... You're a true leader...
One of the best we've met.
Thank you for making India 2009,
A build we'll never forget!!
Final Ceremony
New house... (once it gets a roof on it)


When we arrived at the build site, some of the local women pulled us into their house so that they could give us silver rings, gold necklaces, bangles and a bindi. (forehead decorations) It’s pretty amazing when people who have so little, give you gifts. To refuse would be insulting, so you humbly accept.
Just a side note about bangles here in India. They only come in small size and I must have the largest hands in all of India. We went around to at least 10 stores and in each one, it’s like I’m the ugly step sister trying to squeeze my foot into the glass slipper. Many of the bangles are made of glass so they would occasionally break while the shopkeepers were trying to squeeze them on me… Finally, one shopkeeper squeezed and contorted my hand so much that he got two of them on. I then felt obligated to buy some from him. So once I get home, Penny and I tried to put some more on my wrist and they all ended up breaking and flying off. I even cut myself on the breaking glass so that my hand was dripping blood. So you can imagine my delight when we arrive at the village and they insist on giving me bangles… Through clenched teeth, with my cut hand, I let them put two of the non-glass ones on…I think that’s called “public relations”
Next, our entire team and the locals formed a procession to walk through the town. It was led by local Musicians. (Tim, remind me what they were playing?)

Mama, take this badge off of me
I can't use it anymore.
It's gettin' dark, too dark for me to see
I feel like I'm knockin' on heaven's door.
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Mama, put my guns in the ground
I can't shoot them anymore.
That long black cloud is comin' down
I feel like I'm knockin' on heaven's door.
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Friends come build a house with me
No sad faces anymore...
Building Homes and Building Hope...
I feel like I'm knockin on heaven's door...
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Knock, knock, knockin' on heaven's door
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Week Two Build Photos...
Tim and Nat....
On the bus again...
Girls going shopping...
Hanging at Lyn's store... (father and son are so cute!)
Nat on the wall...
The homeowners mixing the cement...
Having some chai with the locals...
Hanging at the watering hole... (kind of like the water cooler)
This water is dang heavy!! (smile is forced for photo only)
Tim and Pasquale working on the foundation wall...
We interupt this blog to bring you a special Update...
http://www.michelleandmichelleattheashram.blogspot.com/
Michelle